Thanks Matiya. You have put the finger right on the pulse of the underlying issues. In most cases, it is colonisation and socialisation victimhood that reign supreme on the issues of dress. 

Embracing western standards as the holy grail of modest is disturbing. My view is that every culture has what would meet God's standard of modest. It does not have to be western or any alien concept of what is imposed as modest. 

Also, if the clothing sexualises the wearer then there is a major problem there. 
All of us need to contend earnestly with these issues. 

Thanks again for your invaluable insights!